When folks won't invite you into their groups or don't want to be around you it isn't always because of you but because of "what" is on you. The "anointing" of God comes upon a person to designate and empower them to be and do a particular thing for the Lord. It is a "click" repellent, a friend examiner, an exorcist, a relationship revealer, and a phony exposer among other things. Self-absorbed people will justify acting aloof and stand offish or ignoring you by saying things like, "I'm guarding my anointing." Why guard a person from something so good if you're that powerful? Shouldn't what you have on you be able to overpower what is on me? They are delusional and lying!
ISAIAH 10:27; "And it shall come to pass in that day, that his burden shall be taken away from off thy shoulder, and his yoke from off thy neck, and the yoke shall be destroyed because of the anointing."
They may actually be intimidated by the standard you represent, and the anointing and gifts of God on your life. This is one of the reasons why ministry leaders often won't give another minister an opportunity to minister at their church and try to prove their authority over them. To guard one's anointing is to guard one's self from sin not people. Yeshua (Jesus) was so anointed that the demons cried out for him to leave them alone. He didn't ever have to leave from around anyone because he was afraid they would change or taint him. He was so anointed that a woman touched his clothes and got healed. Why hide or guard that kind of anointing? From what? These folks are phonies and fakes; don't even be impressed with them. They don't destroy yokes or scare devils.
JAMES 2:19; "Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble."
The truth is that if their anointing is so great and I'm so much less than them then it should be me that wants to leave and not them having to leave from around me. Personally, I've never felt uncomfortable around anyone like that I know. If they don't want to invite you or be around you and they ignore you its because you don't need to be around them, so let them go. You have an anointing from God and a standard to keep they can't take away or rule over, and it may be "too strait" (narrow) for them to hang with you anyway. "Strait" ways aren't made for crowds. Yeshua (Jesus) gave me mine so I'm not worried about yours. I paid to much to be me to want to be a cheap you. Be the you that God Almighty made you to be for the Kingdom of God, not of men. ~ I.J. West
2nd KINGS 6;1-2; "And the sons of the prophets said unto Elisha, Behold now, the place where we dwell with thee is too strait for us. 2) Let us go, we pray thee, unto Jordan, and take thence every man a beam, and let us make us a place there, where we may dwell. And he answered, Go ye."