When folks won't invite you into their groups or don't want to be around you it isn't always because of you but because of "what" is on you. The "anointing" of God comes upon a person to designate and empower them to be and do a particular thing for the Lord. It is a "click" repellent, a friend examiner, an exorcist, a relationship revealer, and a phony exposer among other things. Self-absorbed people will justify acting aloof and stand offish or ignoring you by saying things like, "I'm guarding my anointing." Why guard a person from something so good if you're that powerful? Shouldn't what you have on you be able to overpower what is on me? They are delusional and lying!